Dear Boy,

If you are a boy and you:
1) Like/Want a girl,
2) Have a girl,
or
3) Want to keep a girl,
then this one's for you...

All girls, no matter what they say, deserve to feel loved and wanted. And heck, we want to feel loved and wanted. That's just human nature and that's the way God made us. So if you feel like you want to do something that means a lot to your girl, but you have absolutely no clue what to do at all, then read this. Maybe it will change your perspective on a few things and give you an idea on what is actually going through a girls mind...

So.. let's get this show on the road..

- Make the effort to make plans with her. Don't always wait for her to ask you.
- When she seems upset or short, ask her what's wrong. Even if she tells you she is fine, it's more than likely that she really isn't fine. Ask her until she tells you. That's probably what she really wants.
- Send her "Good morning" text messages. Believe it or not, this means a lot to her and she loves it when you do that!
- If she writes you a letter or a text message telling you how she feels, don't just smile and say thanks. She didn't spend all that time for a smiley face. Tell her how you feel about her too. Which brings me to my next point...
- If you love her, tell her! Every day!!
- Hold her hand. If she doesn't reach for yours, then reach for hers. Holding her hand is one of those small things that actually means a lot to her.
- Long hugs are fantastic by the way. Another one of those small things
that means a lot.
- When it's late and time to say goodbye and she doesn't make eye contact with you and has a weird look on her face and she says goodbye is a quiet voice, that actually means "please stay for just 5 more minutes..."
- Get her a piece of jewelry with a heart on it. A ring, a necklace, a bracelet, anything. Girls are suckers for hearts from you.
- Always bring an extra jacket. She likes to wear yours.
- If you ever feel like she's slipping away from you, send her a sweet text message telling her how you feel. You never know when she just needs a little reassurance during the day.
- Make her laugh. Once you've done this, well.. kudos to you, kid.
- Send her flowers. Even if it's just something little, it will totally make her whole day.
- Surprise her. It doesn't matter where. At work, school, home, or anywhere else. Surprises are awesome!!
- Sing to her. She doesn't care if you "can't sing", just do it.. She'll love it anyway.
- Tell her she's beautiful.
- Tell her she's beautiful when she actually took the time to try to look beautiful.
- Tell her she's beautiful when she feels and looks like crap.
- Tell her she's beautiful. (<< this one's extra important)
- Hold her. When she's happy, sad, scared, laughing, crying.. Hold her. Any and every chance you get.
- Watch her favorite TV show with her.
- Call her. When you know that she's probably not doing much, call her and talk to her for a little while. Even if it's just to say hello, or goodnight, it really means a lot to her that you called.
- Ask her how her day is going, or how it went.
- Make her a sandwich.
- Be considerate. Recognize when she needs you to be there for her and when she needs to be alone.
- When she wants to have a girls night, don't be all possessive and clingy asking her so many questions. If she wants to hang out with her friends, then let her be, and tell her to have fun!
- Confide in her. Open up to her in a way that you wouldn't to anyone else.
- When buying a gift: Put some effort into it! Pick up little hints on what she might want or like.
- Kiss her. Not a fake, effortless kiss, those suck. But really kiss her like you mean it.
(On the cheek and forehead are acceptable as well.)
- Make her feel special. While it's completely permissible for you to be friends with other girls in the proper context, don't flirt or put yourself in situations that will make you or her uncomfortable. (<< take this to heart!!)
- Listen to her.
- Let her vent.
- Don't talk about other girls' appearances in front of her, even if it is a celebrity.
- Open doors for her.
- Some good quality alone time is always good.
- Gifts don't need reasons to be given. Give her gifts on a normal day, especially when she least expects it.
- Don't take everything she says so personal.


So there ya have it. Yeaaah, there are a lot of steps to winning a girls heart, and honestly, this list could go on forever, but these are probably the main ones to look out for.
It may be a lot of work, but really in the end, it's all worth it.


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